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Author:
R. K.
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Secrets of the Mack - Language Barrier
Most of your suggestions revolve around talking and getting girls to like you based on what you say. My question is how do you pick up girls who don't speak English all that well? I starting to show my confidence and sexuality when talking, but how do you do it when there’s a language barrier? I know that with all those hot foreign chicks around that you've thought about this. - Incommunicado
Your main goal is building rapport, and not being able to speak her language might put you at a disadvantage, but as always, there’s a way to turn that disadvantage into an advantage. In your efforts to communicate with each other, you'll be automatically building rapport, because the two of you are struggling towards a common goal. Your sign language, body language, and slower speaking all help, and when you finally reach the point where the two of you are effectively communicating with each other, she'll realize that she has a deeper connection with you than even the guys who speak her language.
Speak in a confident and fun tone, always smiling and treating your communication difficulties as "cute." Ask her how to say certain things in her language, and teach her some new words. You can also draw pictures of different objects and ask her how to say it in her language. Tease her on her accent every once in a while, and don't be afraid to steer those words towards the sexual type.
As you get closer to each other, turn your sign language and pointing into touch. Nothing blatant, of course (don't grab her tits and say, "This is what all Americans do!"). Try subtle moves like commenting on her hair and running your hand through it, or touching her arms, knee, or face, or giving her quick hugs when you're laughing. All of the touching, coupled with your fun demeanor will effective convey confidence and sexuality.
You can even turn it into a game, i.e. since we don't speak each other's language, let's speak body language! Rubbing arm means, "yes," squeezing hands means, "that’s interesting," and touching leg means, "that's funny."
So with the girls that aren't native English speakers, you do have difficulty in communicating, but you actually have some advantages in building rapport. In fact, I know a guy who actually pretends he can’t speak English so he can play these little games with the American women he meets (who are always pretty eager to introduce him to American customs).
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